
BOOK REVIEWS - by
Laura Pfeffer
January
2010
Which Things Matter?
I have never really understood the urge for
collecting things. I used to work at a Hallmark Store and never did get a
sense of what appeals to collectors. We would get in shipments of some set
of houses, dolls, ornaments, statuettes, toys or something and I would think,
“No one will buy these ugly things”. These would inevitably be the
things everyone coming through the door would want. I even have some of
these items myself which were well-meaning (I think) gifts from friends or
family. The things that I really value, however, are the ones with a story
behind them. The hand embroidered piece given to me on a mission trip to
Mexico, a skirt made by the Hmong women in Milwaukee, the knives my grandmother
gave me when I got my first apartment or the necklace my husband gave me when we
were dating. The things which stand for times in my life I enjoy or want
to remember in some way are for me the things which really matter. The
rest is just stuff.
Heather Elkins relates many powerful stories and
poems about ordinary items involved in
extraordinary times in her book,
Holy
Stuff of Life: Stories, Poems, and Prayers About Human Things.
When cooking oil becomes blessed by
the pope and is later used in consecrating Bishop Violet Fischer, when a silver
spoon from the Korean War leads to a faculty exchange program between Drew
University in New Jersey and Ewha Women’s University in South Korea (founded
by United Methodist women, it is the largest women’s university in the world),
when a Communion chalice which is broken during a difficult General Conference
of the church is later reborn as a votive holder and when the tattoo of a
sparrow leads to a conversation about God’s love of all people, you know that
the work of the divine is reflected in these things. Through simple, yet
powerful stories, poems and prayers, Rev. Elkins reveals the spark of the Holy
Spirit blowing through life which gives a divine touch to even the simplest of
objects and allows them to be vehicles of inspiration, reflection, expression
and revelation. A lesson in living deeply as much as living lightly, the
book is a wonderful reflection on how to see the true value of what we have and
hold on to or pass along what really matters.
Interested in other books on finding what adds
meaning to life? Try some of these other books from the United Methodist
Women’s reading lists:
Looking
for Enough in a Culture of More by
Paul Escamilla; Growing
Friendships: Connecting More Deeply with Those Who Matter Most
by Tracy Klehn; If I Live to
be 100: Lessons From the Centenarians
by Neenah Ellis; Living
Sacrifices: For Those Dying To Rise to a Life Worth Giving
by James Rolling, Jr.; and, Keeping
Spiritual Balance As We Grow Older: More than 65 Creative Ways To Use
Purpose, Prayer and the Power of the Spirit to Build a Meaningful Retirement
by Molly Srode and Bernie Srode.
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God's Economics
No topic so dominates Jesus’
teachings in the bible as does the topic of money and the faith examples it
brings. Biblical stories abound with examples of faithful people who
seemed to be debtors, losers and underdogs in life who were instead blessed by
God and so became blessings to those around and after them. It reminds me
of the song “Grace Alone” in which the lyrics say that everything we do is
only because God first freed us, God first loved us, and God first gave
everything to win us. God is a giver and so we are called to be givers
also so that our gifts may free those still in darkness, love those still lost
and win those still caught in systems of destruction. In today’s hard economy,
we must be more careful to live faithfully so that our stewardship of our
resources is not found wanting and the harvest may continue.
The keys to faithful living and
giving are outlined in Linda Hollies’ book “Living
Bountifully: The Blessing of Responsible Stewardship”.
Told within the context of her own economic booms and busts, Linda Hollies
examines the biblical reflections on God’s call to bless and be blessed
through careful living and giving. Reflecting on the impact of wise stewardship
on issues of community, hunger, resources and servant-hood, this book lays out
biblical examples of how God’s people have responded to calls to live
faithfully. A powerful call to live out the freedom of God’s love, this
book is also a practical guide to reevaluating what is truly worth doing and
having in today’s world.
Interested in other books about
faithful stewardship? Try these other books on the United Methodist Women’s
reading list: "Let the Children Give: Time, Talents, Love and Money"
by Delia Halverson; "Energy: Use Less – Save More" by
Jon Cliff and Amanda Cuthbert; "Reduce, Reuse, Recycle!: An
Easy Household Guide" by Nicky Scott; "Who’s Raising
Your Child: Battling the Marketers for Your Child’s Heart and Soul"
by Laura Buddenberg and Kathleen McGee; "Fifty-Two Simple Ways to
Make a Difference" by Paul Simon; and, "The Blessings of
Brokenness: Why God Allows Us To Go Through Hard Times" by
Charles Stanley.
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September
2009
Here I am Lord; Send Me
I’ve
worked on a few different construction-oriented mission projects: Habitat
for Humanity, Hands on Atlanta and local church supported projects in various
states. In some ways these have been challenging since my
"how-to" knowledge is extremely basic, but in other ways these have
been the most rewarding projects I have worked on because they have had concrete
results and have directly improved people’s lives. It is best when you
get to meet or work with the families because no matter how unskilled your help,
it’s really the connections of the heart which last into the future. We
live such segregated and privileged lives in so many ways that it can be easy to
forget how many people face almost insurmountable daily challenges in securing
basic, safe housing. Although working on a mission project is a wonderful
experience, the lasting re-minder is to fight for equal justice for all of the
children of God. Justice work is one which needs no special skills, only an open
heart.
The Salkehatchie Summer Service project is a
mission of the United Methodist Church of the South Carolina Conference and is
as much about transforming the lives of the youth volunteers as it is about
rebuilding homes for the poor. The witness of the power of this project in
bringing people closer to God and to their neighbors is recorded in the stories,
poems, sermons and reflections of volunteers in the book Send Me! The
Story of Salkehatchie Summer Service by Arlene Andrews, John Culp and Art
Dexter. Part history, part witness, part revelation, this book records the
success of John Culp in developing a youth outreach program connecting
volunteers with people in need and working to build bridges of understanding as
well as encouraging youth leadership and self-reflection. Originally
envisioned as a part of a racial reconciliation project with the Gullah people
(descendants of West African slaves who reside on the barrier islands off the
coast of South Carolina), Salkehatchie has spread to all corners of the state as
well as North Carolina and Georgia, in urban as well as rural areas, as a tool
of empowerment and compassion born of sweat, frustration and perseverance.
In rebuilding the physical walls of a house, the invisible barriers of hearts go
down to allow God’s love to shine brightly in all God’s children.
Interested in other books about mission and
youth? Try these books from the United Methodist Women’s reading
list: Creating a Habitat for Humanity: No Hands but Yours
by Jonathan Reckford; What Can One Person Do?: Faith to Heal a
Broken World by Sabina Alkire and Edmund Newell; Peace Jam:
How Young People Can Make Peace in their Schools and Communities by
Darcy Gifford; and, Let the Children Give: Time, Talents, Love and
Money by Delia Halverson.
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August
2009
The Future of Faith
Coming
from a secular family, I did not grow up within a faith tradition. Yet,
when I heard God’s call, it was the Intervarsity Christian Fellowship group on
my college campus which accepted me, allowed me to grow spiritually and gave me
leader-ship roles. On campus, our small group was far outnumbered by other
religious, cultural and secular groups, such that my understanding of faith has
always occurred within an understanding of pluralism and the necessity of
"showing" the work of faith. Even as I have continued to study
scripture, engage in worship and work in mission, I have done so with awareness
that other traditions share many of the same fundamental desires, challenges and
values. Faith in the twenty-first century demands an understanding of the
power of acting across boundaries to reach a new generation and a new world.
In Acts of Faith: The Story of an
American Muslim, the Struggle for the Soul of a Generation, Eboo Patel
documents his own experience as a son of immigrants who struggled to find
acceptance in American society. Although he was fortunate enough to find a
role in the YMCA and heroes in the examples of people like Dorothy Day, the
difficulties he faced in bridging the gap of tradition and youth are more often
the same opportunities used to recruit extremists and violent radicals. In
the hands of a more extremist, charismatic leader, faith can be used to recruit
young people into acts of terrible destruction and death. By creating the
Interfaith Youth Corps, Eboo Patel seeks to bring together youth from diverse
religious backgrounds to work together and share their experiences in positive
and affirming ways as an example of how faith can strengthen in the new
millennium and build the paths of peace with a new generation.
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July 2009
Who’s At Your Table?
Every
Thanksgiving that I can remember when I was growing up included one very special
guest. It was one of my parent’s co-workers who was single and only had
family on the coast, far away. Without fail, my father would drive out to
pick her up and she would show her slides of trips to Thailand or Cambodia after
dinner. It only occurred to me many years later that this was not the sort
of thing all families did on the holidays. In fact, as a child I saw a
regular stream of foreign graduate students come to dinner, usually bearing
small gifts or exotic foods. I think much of my appreciation of foreign
cultures can be traced to this early exposure to people and things so different
from my Midwestern background. I know that it has helped to accustom my
ear to understanding people who speak English with foreign accents. The
gifts we receive by extending hospitality to those whose background and
experiences or situation are different from our own are priceless.
Hospitality is only one of the aspects of the
connection between food and the Christian faith which will be explored
in the spiritual growth study, Food and Faith, at School of Christian
Mission this summer. The study book Food and Faith by Wendy
Whiteside also broadens our understanding of our part in responsible eating as
well the spiritual practice of fasting and the role of feast days and communion
in the life of the church. Filled with stories from experiences of food
all around the country and the world, this book is an engaging and thought
provoking look at our basic human need and how it reflects God’s plans for our
life in community.
Interested in other books on food and the
Christian life? Try some of these books from the United Methodist Women’s
reading list: Sharing Food: Christian Practices for Enjoyment
by L. Shannon Jung; Faith and Fitness: Diet and Exercise for a
Better World by Tom P. Hafer; Ending Hunger Now: A Challenge
to Person’s of Faith by George McGovern, Bob Dole and Donald Messer; This
Organic Life: Confessions of a Suburban Homesteader by Joan Dye
Gussow and The Eco-Foods Guide by Cynthia Barstow.
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June 2009
Whose Church Is It?
I
think some of the most difficult
times I have experienced in church were during the time in which I was on the
Pastor/Staff Relations committee at a time in which there was a movement to oust
the pastor. The move had come after a series of changes to the arrangement
of furniture in the sanctuary, including moving some memorial chairs out of
view, placing the baptismal font at the entrance and moving the flags to the
Fellowship Hall, among others. Several long-time members played the
"leaving" card, threatening to take their presence and money away in
protest of changes happening to "their church". I remember
saying at the time, "I thought this was God’s church." To be
God’s church is not dependent upon a single tradition, worship style or
comfort zone, it is to do God’s mission and reach the lost and broken.
When we think that it is more important for church to cater to us, than to reach
new people, then the church will not survive and grow, and, more importantly,
God will not enter into the lives of those He longs to reach and heal.
In Who Stole My Church? : What to Do When
the Church You Love Tries to Enter the 21st Century, Gordon MacDonald
creates a fictional church facing some familiar challenges: changing from
choirs to praise bands, Power Point sermons and hymnals and organs unused.
Pastor MacDonald uses his own voice to walk through the challenges of change and
division in the established church member-ship as it seeks to find a renewed
sense of church mission in today’s world. Through a series of meetings,
sharing and bible study, the group regains a sense of balance and perspective,
sacrifice and understand-ing which opens them up to seeing their lives as truly
open to being used power-fully in the lives of those around them – to be
church.
Interested in learning more about church mission
and identity in today’s world? Try some other books from the United Methodist
Women’s reading list: Many Face One Church: A Manual for
Cross-racial and Cross-cultural Ministry by Earnest Lyght, Glory
Dharmaraj and Jacob Dharmaraj; Grace Matters: A Memoir of Faith,
Friendship and Hope in the Heart of the South by Chris Rice; Letters
to a Young Doubter by William Sloane Coffin; and, O Lord, Hold Our
Hands: How A Church Thrives In A Multicultural World by Nibs Stroupe and
Caroline Leach.